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Are You Being Yourself?

This blog post is not for everyone who has a chronic illness. If you’ve let the important people in your life (except for those you work with or for) know about your illness and have given them at least a … Continue reading

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Have You Asked for What You Want and Need?

Our interactions with others can be and often are one of the most stressful, difficult, and painful areas of our lives. That is especially true for those of us living with a chronic illness for lots of reasons. We may … Continue reading

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Do You Have Something to Get Better For?

Have you ever thought about what you would do if got well? I haven’t done a scientific survey, but my sense from all those with chronic illness I’ve talked with is that most people haven’t. Of course you want to … Continue reading

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You Truly Need Gentleness and Compassion–from Yourself

If you have read more than a few of my posts, you know that I frequently recommend that you be gentle and compassionate with yourself when you are experiencing painful symptoms or having a hard time because of your illness. … Continue reading

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Doing Different Things to Try to Get Well

When we have a chronic illness, we often try every thing we can think of to get better. Unfortunately, some of the things we try provide little or no improvement. For example, I went on a very strict and difficult … Continue reading

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What Is Your Self-Care Account Balance?

I’m sure you know that when you have a checking or savings account, you need to put money into it before you can take any out. And if the total amount of the checks you’ve written and the withdrawals you’ve … Continue reading

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Are You a Refugee in a Foreign Land?

In this post, I’m going to share  a testimonial with you that I recently received. In it, my client, who is a gifted  writer who lives in Tasmania, describes far better than I could how she was able to reframe … Continue reading

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Are You Earning Your Own Trust (and Why You Should if You’re Not)?

To live the best life you possibly can, you need to take care of yourself well. And doing that is especially important when you have a serious chronic illness. But you’re human, and there are times when you can’t take … Continue reading

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How to Feel Better Instantly

Today I want to tell you how to feel better instantly. It’s something I learned from my ex-wife. Here’s how the lesson came about: When we were married, we had more than our share of heated arguments, and sometimes when … Continue reading

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Ask Yourself Why

Last year, until it closed down, I was a volunteer for an online support group that was for people with chronic illnesses. I supported them in managing and overcoming the depression that often accompanies serious long term illnesses. In order … Continue reading

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